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31 Jul 2015

Links me-time and the Knowing (II)

In a little series of links I see how me-time and collective consciousness are related, now the second:

noticing changes in the part of your collective(s) that is you

This blog post is following the very same line of thought  - it is easier to see subtle changes, when you’ve been away for a while-, but now in reverse.
In the former blog post I described how you see the subtle changes in the e-scape around you, when you come back to it from your me-time.
Meanwhile, if you have regularly me-time, you’ll notice subtle changes in the patterns of your inner e-scape too.
Some of which, are harmonious in their development, simply a joy to see evolve.
However, very much like processes sometimes going ‘ off track’ outside of you, it is possible to receive early signals in your inner e-scape that something needs attention there. A process is gently moving away from being harmoniously in line with the whole.

Again, it is much easier to identify what that is if you look at it frequently and fresh... having energetically tuned into something else for a while.
Wait too long and you miss the patterns and the connections, because the e-scape is far too different from last time you looked into it.
Look constantly at it and you’ll not see the changes, because they unfold so subtly that you change with it.
When you are aware of what is the matter with you, in the world of energy, what needs some attention to go back on track, you’ll probably also have ideas on what can be done.

You can supply yourself with (probably surprisingly) many things in life, other things you might need to find around you.

If something is the matter with you, personally, you are sending signals about that out in energy to all the collectives you are a part of. If something within you, personally, is the actual  source of these distress signals  (whether subtle and tiny only in energy, or even bigger in words and deeds).....it becomes part of the collective e-scape and others are under its influence ( thanks to the auto-tuning system).
That is all right, of course, since it is very helpful to the survival of a social being.

But if you are the source of distress and there are things you could easily do yourself to harmonise the distress, it would be the done thing to do what you can, knowing that your ‘ off track’ signals are influencing and alerting others too and may (when left to fester) cause problems for more people.... or not?

If your blather is full you can just simply harmonise the distress yourself by going to the loo.
if you are travelling in a car in a collective, however, you cannot stop at will. So when there is a stop, people empty their own blathers even when there is just a vague awareness that a full-blather-alarm-may-occur-in-the-next-1,5 hours.

The child who is asked:” Do you need to go now?” who says ‘ no’, but exclaims after 10 minutes on the motorway:” I have to go now!” quickly learns that the collective is not pleased with being confronted with somebody who is not doing the necessary themselves  in time, for the whole collective process to run smoothly.

With a child, the irritation may be accompanied by a fair dose of compassion, for the adults know that the child might not have developed the blather awareness yet, in relation to travelling as a group in a car.
If it is the healthy 40 year old, who didn’t take one minute of me-time to check her blather levels, but only kept her eyes on the outside world: the sweets counter and the messages on her phone, made her ' not go'.
And now she urgently needs another loo-stop, she is the objective source of a collective problem..... compassion from the collective may not be in the top 10 of responses  in the quickly changing e-scape. .....

This very same principle applies on your emotional household, that sometimes needs ' input', 'transformation' or ' output'.
There is a lot you can do all by yourself, by sorting out your personal emotional hygiene, without having to bother anybody else with it, directly or indirectly.Without causing any trouble for the collective.

And if there is something you feel you need the help from the collective with, it helps if you can be quite clear on what you need, or if you don’t know in detail, can at least describe the difficulties you are experiencing, so a more experienced person can  recognise it and can help you out.

A car mechanic will ask:” What is the trouble?” in the physical world.
A doctor will ask:” What is the trouble?”in the physical world.
Partners, friends or even sensitive strangers may ask:" What is the trouble?" about the metaphysical world, of energy, resonding to the signals you are sending out.

Just shrugging in any of those cases and saying: ‘ I have not the vaguest idea!’ implying.....it is completely up to you to sort my troubles out here.
Implicetly conveying: I am not the source, I take no responsibility/ response ability, is odd, to say the least, if the energy, the distress signal is being emitted from your inner world! If it is your full emotional blather that needs emptying.....

All it takes is a couple of minutes of investigating what the situation is: what does work, what doesn’t and .....what can I try to solve this myself. This gives a lot of information to the other members of the collective to work with. Saves time and energy, on both sides.

Sorting yourself out, where you can, monitoring and knowing what is going on in your inner world,  is not only an investment in yourself, but also in the collective. Good to be aware of, I’d say. Good to invest in..... with regular me-time.


There is more where these listings came from... to be continued on another day.....

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